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On the mind, relationships and decisions

Practical perspectives from psychology and coaching — on how you think, choose and build your relationships. No jargon, no miracle fixes.

Nevoia de control. Cum îți dai seama când e prea mult sau prea puțin?
Psychology
The Need for Control: How Do You Know When It's Too Much or Too Little?

What comes to mind when you think about control? Maybe that moment when you want to scream at the person who just angered you, but you don't? Or when you're tempted to check your partner's phone? Or when you want to do everything yourself because no one else does it as well?

De ce luăm decizii pe care apoi le regretăm?
Psychology
Why Do We Make Decisions We Later Regret?

Our life is the sum of our decisions. Looking back at the choices that shaped who we are today, here's how to understand — and make peace with — the ones we regret.

Cum te afectează lipsa de încredere în sine
Psychology
How Lack of Self-Confidence Affects You

Have you ever wondered why you need someone else's approval to make a decision or to act a certain way? Here are the signs that you're seeking validation instead of trusting yourself — and what you can do about it.

Când îți vine să renunți
Psychology
When You Feel Like Giving Up

A reflection on the moments when motivation and direction disappear, and the four things — action, courage, discipline, and self-forgiveness — that help carry you through them.

Povestea mistrețului și cum ne alegem modelele în viață?
Psychology
The Story of the Wild Boar and How We Choose Our Role Models in Life

A parable about a hunter, a lioness, and a wounded boar — a reminder to choose our life models consciously, rather than imitating those who are simply suffering.

Momentul adevărului : cine ești Tu în viața ta?
Psychology
The Moment of Truth: Who Are You in Your Own Life?

A reflection on the courage it takes to stop living according to others' expectations and start listening to your own soul.

Rău faci, bine găsești?
Psychology
Sow Bad, Reap Good?

A moment of road rage becomes a lesson in why answering negativity with negativity never brings good into your life.

Sfârșit sau un nou început?
Psychology
An Ending or a New Beginning?

A meditation on how every ending can be seen as a new beginning, followed by a guided visualization exercise connecting you with your past and future self.

Tu ai timp să pierzi timpul?
Psychology
Do You Have Time to Waste Time?

On why living authentically means acting instead of merely thinking, talking, or dreaming about the life you want.