What Is It Time to Invite Into Your Life?

I've been noticing lately that many people are going through all kinds of changes on every front: some are moving, changing jobs, taking a sabbatical, getting married, getting divorced, discovering new passions, and so on.

We live in a world where the only constant is change. I'd also say that change means growth, as long as the results are positive.
If I'm better off today than I was yesterday, or a year or two ago, it means I've grown.

But what do you do when you feel like you no longer fit into a certain environment, or you'd like to try something new, yet you feel stuck?

It's as if today you want to make that change, and tomorrow you change your mind.

How do you figure out what you actually want?

Well, let me walk you through a few signs that tell you you're on the verge of a change:

6 Signs You're Ready for Change

1. You focus on what isn't working and what you don't like
You're not where you want to be. You feel like something is missing, and you're dissatisfied most of the time. The image you have of yourself today doesn't match who you'd actually like to be.

2. You're confused and stuck
You try to put the pieces together and it just doesn't work out. You have ideas, dreams, goals — and yet you see no progress in the direction you want. You keep going in circles.

3. You feel like you've lost yourself, in a way
You feel disconnected from yourself, from what you used to love doing, from the motivation you once had.
You don't feel like yourself anymore, and it scares you that you don't have a map for where you're headed. Everything is in a thick fog.
Deep down you know you can do more, that you deserve more, and that it's time to find yourself again. You are the most important person here.

4. You can't wait for the day to end
You count the hours until work is over, until the day is over, so you can finally have time for your kids, your partner, yourself.
It's as if you don't want to live in the present, but to skip ahead to some point in the future where things will be the way you want them. You feel suffocated and trapped by your daily responsibilities.

5. You're going through a major crisis
The foundation you've been living on until now is crumbling, shifting. Life as you knew it seems to no longer exist.
Whether it's a loss, a difficult situation, or a health problem, all of these call for change. It's time to let go of the old to make room for the new. You might even start making changes around the house: redecorating, cleaning out closets, clothes, and so on.

6. The waiting is over
Until now you've been waiting for the moment when you'd finally have enough courage, money, or confidence. You've waited for a miracle, a sign that it's time to start creating the life you want. Now, instead of excuses, you have ideas.

If you resonate with one or more of the things listed above, it means you're ready for change, for the next step.

To support you in taking action, on the occasion of International Coaching Week, taking place April 29 – May 5, I'm offering 5 packages of 3 free one-hour coaching sessions each for those who are interested and ready to move on to the next level in their lives.

To book a session or ask questions, write to me at ralucas.nedelcu@gmail.com. Also, if you have friends who you think would like to experience coaching, feel free to pass this message along 🙂

In closing, I'll leave you with a question I hope will be useful:

What is it time to invite into your life?

Talk soon,

Raluca

P.S: You can read more about coaching here: https://ralucanedelcu.com/coaching/

P.P.S: I'm also attaching a short guide about the coaching process and what it involves, in more detail, according to the ICF (International Coaching Federation). You can view it here: coaching material